Communication is key… – page 5 – prison talk ledderhose disease natural treatment

Wow, I can relate on some level. Even though this post is older, I wanted to respond. The person I was in a relationship with def. made it more difficult for me to communicate on a ledderhose disease natural treatment deeper level with anyone else. I think the saying "Time heals all wounds" holds true in most circumstances. In mine, it allowed me to meet a man in which I ledderhose disease natural treatment share the most open communication with. I think it depends on the person, the individual, and how much you can help one another to overcome ledderhose disease natural treatment while working together to build that level of trust and ledderhose disease natural treatment communication. He was actually one of the first people I ever ledderhose disease natural treatment truly opened up to about everything that was going on ledderhose disease natural treatment in my relationship at that time. We had made a promise to not judge each other, or at least do our best to not judge we ledderhose disease natural treatment are only human. He was there for me when I left, and listened and supported me emotionally. He’s been patient with me when I get upset at ledderhose disease natural treatment him for trivial things that shouldn’t matter, but because I was in such a relationship how I ledderhose disease natural treatment interact with a partner is forever changed. I know that the person he is is nothing like ledderhose disease natural treatment the man I left. I trust him and I allow him to see me ledderhose disease natural treatment when I’m happy, vulnerable, sad, excited, etc. I think it’s also important to note red flags when you are ledderhose disease natural treatment talking with someone and building upon that relationship to make ledderhose disease natural treatment sure you aren’t going to end up in another relationship that shares ledderhose disease natural treatment similar components of the unhealthy one. Meaning you don’t want to be in a relationship where you fear ledderhose disease natural treatment sharing simply how you feel. I am simply amazed the walls I broke down with ledderhose disease natural treatment this man, however I am glad I did. We aren’t perfect, and either is what we have…but nothing in this world is. It’s something we work towards and are happy to work ledderhose disease natural treatment towards together. I really hope this helped. Just being open and honest will help build communication in ledderhose disease natural treatment your relationship. If you can’t dive in the deep end, start small. Something like asking one question you maybe generally wouldn’t ask.

My husband has never been the best communicator on the ledderhose disease natural treatment outside. Only because he truly has not spent much time out ledderhose disease natural treatment here. He did 2 short bids when he was in his ledderhose disease natural treatment 20’s in state and then a 14 yr federal after ledderhose disease natural treatment that.) So what communication he did have when we met 3 ledderhose disease natural treatment years ago was limited (he had only been out from his federal bid for ledderhose disease natural treatment about 4-5 months).

During our time he really grew as a person and ledderhose disease natural treatment communicator but still had some issues. A lot of after thought goes on with him, and I have learned to work with it. Sometimes its hard to explain to someone that you can’t make up for certain things being done or said ledderhose disease natural treatment – and home is not prison – so don’t treat me like your celly! Over time he was great, he was open and although he still had a hard ledderhose disease natural treatment time expressing himself always, he always made an effort.

So now – We are about 2 months into a 5 year bid ledderhose disease natural treatment and he is great at writing and that helps so ledderhose disease natural treatment much. I love his letters and that he asks questions for ledderhose disease natural treatment me to answer – otherwise I feel like I am sending him my journal, but he has never complained about that. Keeping your letters off the mundane of life helps. Let your man/woman dream and don’t be upset if he changes his mind every week ledderhose disease natural treatment about what he wants to do when he gets home. Ignore all the "prison stuff" he discusses because it will depress the daylight right out ledderhose disease natural treatment of you! Write even on the days when you just don’t think you can – I buy cards on sale so I can at least ledderhose disease natural treatment send something when I am not in the mood for ledderhose disease natural treatment writing a long diatribe of my world.

I was under a carport sitting on a leather sofa ledderhose disease natural treatment next to a man I called my boyfriend while his ledderhose disease natural treatment ex girlfriend served us Zaxby’s, then returned inside her home. This was the night before Mark was picked up on ledderhose disease natural treatment the outstanding warrant for his arrest. I remember hugging him. I remember wanting to sink into him. I hadnt seen him for three weeks. He was hiding out from the warrant for his arrest. He was hiding out at his ex girlfriends. So, uhmmm…, yes, you could say we had some communication issues prior to ledderhose disease natural treatment incarceration.

I won’t bore you with details but, we fell into some financial troubles that would make tailspins ledderhose disease natural treatment dizzy. His ex was the financier when they were together. Mark took care of us in our relationship. Until the legal trouble came and fell upon our lives. He went back to her because her wallet was the ledderhose disease natural treatment honey hole. He was running from the law. He SHOULD’VE been honest with me. I actually understood. I’m not saying, I was okay with what he had done, I simply understood. He would’ve been better off telling me that he was going ledderhose disease natural treatment to utilize his leverage to get our situation improved rather ledderhose disease natural treatment than kept it from me until I showed up on ledderhose disease natural treatment her doorstep.

So, now, 7 months later, what’s changed??? Well, besides his obvious undivided attention? Ya know, the jail-hail-testify attention. Well, limits have been set between us. We agree to let the other know our actions before ledderhose disease natural treatment a third party outsider. The idea of Mark having a secret of being at ledderhose disease natural treatment his exes made me the third-wheel in MY OWN relationship!! Definitely NOT f**king cool with that sh*t!! OKAY!!??!! Boundaries have been set around us. We agree to keep us at the center and allow ledderhose disease natural treatment everything else to fall around us. This includes our imperfect indiscretions. And, of course, LOVE!!

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